You will meet a lot of people around you, you will have to push through a lot of crowds, you will hear a lot of things, all you have to do is ignore them. Some people will come to spread garbage in your life, you have to uproot them like weeds, you have to set your own boundaries in life, wherever you see negativity, you will distance yourself from it.
Although it may sound bad, many people close to you want to see you badly, they want to rub salt in a wound under the ointment called sympathy, you simply don't give that opportunity, don't argue unnecessarily, there is no need to explain, if someone in front of you says you are stupid, accept it and walk away, that time and energy will be saved, that's it for the sake of gossip. Listen to what everyone is saying, and smile and straighten your spine and make your own decision, those who can make their own decisions really know and understand life.
When others are busy criticizing you, plant trees, go for a walk, paint a canvas, tidy up your house, read motivational books, read stories, read two more books, look at your old photos, play badminton, take photos, go out for tea, sew, worship, in short, don't react to their words, let them say what they say, even if it comes to your ears, throw it away, at the end of the day you know what you are, how you are, and you also know that those who are saying this just don't matter to you.
Set a boundary, open up to only those who you breathe into, in front of whom you feel comfortable standing like a mirror, explain to them only, learn to lean towards them, because maybe they or he won't want to see you bad.
Shake off the rest of the world by 'garland ghur'.
Keep one thing in mind: life is beautiful, the life you are living is beautiful, you just have to weed out the weeds that grow occasionally or if you see a thorn in the corner, you have to step aside. You don't have to answer everything, you don't have to react to everything, there is no need to convince everyone. If you can't get rid of these, the loss is yours.
590.241 SRY