"Know yourself, build yourself. It is wise to move away from where there is no value. To soar like an eagle, you have to leave some relationships behind."
You have to come out of where you are not valued, courageously, otherwise you will have to live with the shame of failure all your life.
You will hear many life-changing stories, but...
A king never begs when he dies of hunger
Eagles never eat the meat of dead animals
Do you know why? It is their self-esteem or ego or it can be called 'strong mentality'
If you want to be mentally strong, reduce unwanted interest. Speak in moderation and walk away. If someone says 'you talk too much,' then reduce talking to them.
When you understand that all your complaints will go against you, your words are just verbal pollution to others, then just listen. Don't want to talk. Once you overcome the urge to talk, to meet, life becomes very different. The desire to talk about something terrible does not grip your throat.
Once you understand that the responsibility for wanting to walk the path together is not yours alone, the feeling will go away.
There is nothing more difficult than losing interest in someone like "I love him but I don't want to live together." Once the interest is gone, you can wander around with a feeling of "it's just the way it is." There is no more worry about who said what, who thought what. It seems that whoever knows what, knows it, there is no problem. No one is leading my life.
People lose a lot to maintain good lives for others. Many even lose their lives in middle age to maintain good lives.
And those who have not lost their lives, they do not give up even after trying hard to get themselves together.
When you try to bring great positivity within yourself, you will realize that your surroundings are filled with negativity. Positive people are as beautiful as they look, and they struggle more.
"Feelings do not do anything. Words are needed to express your feelings, sentences are needed." Master this simple grammar that you read in childhood. 🤔 Reduce the skill of arguing on your own. When the frequency of words and sentences decreases, the bad feelings calm down.
If you can stand up again after being defeated by yourself, you will see that standing up is terribly difficult. There won't be a shred of extra emotion in it.
Silently move away from where you are not being taken seriously. Be brave like an eagle and tear the threads of the relationship one by one.
738.608 SRY