Women need attention. wrong or not ??

### Dear serey all Attention is one of the things needed in living a relationship. Without attention, relationships can run bland and the bond between you. Speaking of attention, there is a view that men are the ones responsible for giving this attention first. This view is indeed as if it is not fair and biased. As a result, girls often get the title as a spoiled and thirsty people, because they don't want to start first. Actually we are not spoiled or thirsty for attention. But for girls, there are several things that are the reasons why you prefer to be noticed first. Some of the following are the reasons why we are more comfortable to pay attention to first. Maybe the girls out there will also say yes. https://i.imgur.com/EuiO72w.jpg #### 1. Attention is like opium. Moreover, girls tend to use feelings for everything It's almost the same as your favorite scent or favorite food, the attention given by men this time also makes us addictive. When guys give their attention, we feel like many butterflies are gathering in the stomach. In addition, there is always a thump in the chest, although this is not his first concern. The two things that make opium are caused because we always put forward feelings in everything. Until the attention that men give always targets our hearts first. #### 2. In our minds, the attention given first is a sign that a guy really cares, and is very happy The guy who gives attention is proof that they care. Especially if the attention is given on the basis of self awareness. Seriousness is clearly the foundation. We also understand correctly that caring is a form of affection that is able to make this relationship stronger. Their concern is of course for us the girls are happy. Because at this time it is rare to get attention on the basis of concern? #### 3. In fact, the girl's prestige is greater. So we waited until the guy gave his attention. So please understand ~ Regarding prestige, girls are indeed champions. This prestige also makes girls prefer to be given attention first. Because, prestige often keeps us from giving that attention to guys first. As a result, we don't hesitate to wait until a certain period of time, until the guy gives his attention. Although in that waiting moment, we also often give subtle codes so that we don't wait too long for the boy's attention. #### 4. Girls also feel themselves special. There is no other word that can describe our feelings other than being proud and happy Usually, guys will only pay attention to girls who are considered special at heart. We as girls also agreed to this view. The attention that guys give, however small it is, always makes you feel special. We seem to have a place in the hearts of the boys, so they don't hesitate to pay attention to us first. If you feel special in their hearts, we will be even more enthusiastic in participating in struggling to accompany this relationship step. #### 5. Through the attention of girls, they feel comfortable in their hearts. And this comfort makes us appreciate each of their efforts Comfort can not only be obtained from soothing words. For us, comfort can also be obtained from the attention given. Moreover, such attention is given without you asking first. It feels like this heart and mind are comfortable, even though you are not alone. For example, guys ask how we are today after a day of work. It's trivial indeed, but for us we feel valued as a partner. Comfort is also what makes us always appreciate all the attention that men give. #### 6. The attention given first is also a sign that men's business in undergoing relationships is as great In a relationship, two pillars of foundation will be far stronger than themselves. Through the attention that this guy gave, we became fully aware that they really did have an effort in the relationship. When we really know the business you are doing, we will not hesitate to arrange the steps so that this relationship goes towards the goals that we want to achieve both. Actually, whoever gives attention first is the same. Want a guy or girl, all have the right to do it. It's just that, because girls rely more on feelings and are still grappling with a great sense of prestige, often we prefer to be noticed first. Citing a term ladies first gentleman later, it can be a little explanation, that as creatures created from your ribs, we always want to take precedence. Like prioritizing attention. __ __ ### Thanks @zur