Housewife as a career woman

#### Dear serey all Women work is not a new thing in everyday life. However, every woman who works cannot be considered a career woman. What is meant by a career woman is a woman who takes her career or work seriously. Labels as career women can lead to negative thoughts in ordinary people so that a career woman is considered to forget her nature as a housewife because she left home to work and not take care of her household. In the past, women were still very attached to traditional values ​​rooted in society. So if there were women who had a career to develop their expertise outside the home, they were considered to have violated the tradition so that they were excluded from the community and environment. Thus they lack the opportunity to develop themselves in the midst of society. In line with the times, women today, especially those who live in big cities tend to play a double role because they have got the widest opportunity to develop themselves so that important positions and jobs in society are no longer monopolized by men. . Of course it will have an impact on social life, both positive and negative. One nature that humans have is giving birth. Being a mother is an indescribable happiness for a woman. However, sometimes, for a career woman, this becomes a dilemma. Because, the need to pursue a career and pay attention to children are two things that are often can't even go hand in hand. In fact there is also a career woman who doesn't want to get married or have children because they think it will disrupt their career. This is what causes some people to view career women violating the nature they have brought from birth to childbirth and lactation. Moreover, if a woman who is well-off demeans their husband because the income is much lower. Certainly this can have a negative impact on the lives of households that have been nurtured.  Seeing the phenomenon that occurs in women among career women is more specific among celebrity women that assumption is indeed strengthened by many cases and facts. According to media reports, especially in infotainment programs, celebrity female households are suspected of having many problems. Strife, suspected fraud, under-married marriages, until divorce cases are rife among our female artists. This fact then makes some people suspect, arbitrarily gives a negative stamp for career women. But for career women who can find out the limitations of work, the life of the household and work will be balanced, of course there are many positive impacts that can be enjoyed, including increasing income that can improve the welfare of the household life primarily in terms of the economy. human resources owned, more maintaining appearance, can fill leisure time, be more confident and can improve the family economy. The facts revealed later indicate that it is actually not a profession of choice as a career woman that creates a rift in the household, but how to respond to it, which also determines whether or not their gait is optimal in the family and living environment. The proof is that there are still many women who are active but able to educate children, take care of their husbands. In my neighborhood, for example, the average married woman who works actually looks very active and often an inspiration in the local village activities. Many women who choose a career at the same time continue to play their role as housewives who try to find additional income to help their husbands to make a living for their families, but these women can still take the time to take care of their husbands and children. , besides getting additional income as a wife, they can still serve all the needs of their husbands and children. For women who decide on a career without having to leave their nature as a housewife, they must be a dean, do not have to do their own homework but can usually be dealt with by using the services of a housemaid to help with their duties, and they should be able to divide their time to interact with husband and children, so that he can still give attention as a complete housewife. As for what to do when a woman wants a career: Determine the main priority is the family because those who are obliged to make a living are a husband. Try to be able to share time for family and career women. Always try for children and husbands Create a special schedule to spend time walking or spending time with family. Make the husband as a partner to discuss work. So it can be concluded that it is not an option as a career woman that can cause disruption of the household, but the way the woman responds to her work determines success. If the woman can still divide time and prioritize the family, the work will not interfere with her household. If the chosen profession does not advocate violations of their ethos as women (mothers and wives), it certainly does not matter if they are active in their careers. Their time can still be spent on caring for their husbands ... For that a woman must try to channel her ability to work without forgetting the nature that she has been born with as a mother and wife. __ ___ ### Thanks @zur