Personal Development of Our Children.

Parents play an important role in the development of children, therefore parents must be able to recognize the development of their children, both their personal development and social development.  The child's personal development includes the child's speech, emotional, and motor skills. speaking is the most important communication tool in humans compared to other forms of communication such as gestures, writing, pictures, and others. Children will get acquainted with their world through talking to their parents and environment, then interactions between children and their environment arise through talking. The development of speech following the child's development and speech maturity, gradually speaking will become more effective as a communication tool. Since baby children should be accustomed to talking to. Parents who talk in front of babies can be worthy of entertainment to babies and provide security. Even though the baby does not understand the speech of parents, but speaking is a means of connecting parents and their babies. The more the baby gets older, will make talking to parents as a science that will be example. Invite children to speak as early as possible, because talking as the main tool to develop all forms of child development such as social development, and emotional development. At the age of adolescence, speaking is no longer a means of entertaining children or expressing the child's will but some of their abilities are self-actualizing. Children's cognitive development is also influenced by the extent to which children are able to speak. Personal development that follows is the child's emotions. anger is a type of emotion that dominates other types of emotions. Parents usually have difficulty dealing with when children are angry. sometimes parents get angry at angry children, and usually make the problem unfinished.but knowing the anger of a child may not be resolved by the anger of parents. Confusion of parents dealing with angry children can be overcome by training parents not to get angry when they see children angry. Parents are a determinant of the level of personal development of the child. Parents must begin to be a motivator for children, starting from getting children to talk so that children's development is getting better. Parents must identify ways to overcome problems in the stages of the child's personal development.  **Thank you very much..**