Basic manners that must be taught to children
| Teaching basic manners and manners not only teaches respect for others, but also creates the foundation for a peaceful environment. What you teach children, they inculcate go qualities in them and lay the foundation of a healthy society. |
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| is beautiful but the most beautiful part of her is childhood. Children are like flowers. They are gentle and need to be cared for with great care and responsibility. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) set a great example of love for children. He used to shower love on his grandchildren. According to a blessed hadith, the Holy Prophet (PBUH) kissed Hazrat Hasan bin Ali (RA). At that time, Iqra bin Habs Tamimi was also sitting near him. He said: (O Messenger of Allah!) I have ten sons, but I have never kissed any of them. Upon this, the Holy Prophet looked at him and said: He who does not show mercy is not shown mercy. ( Sahih Bukhari). If parents want to see how successful they are in their lives, they can judge it by looking at their children. If the children are morally good, that is the success of the parents. Thus, children are the real measure of success or failure. Therefore, parents should teach their children good character and manners by creating a better environment within their homes. No blackboard, flip chart or multimedia is needed to teach morals to children, but as a parent, methods, habits, factors and words have a lasting impact on children's minds. The home environment is the single most important factor that has a profound effect on a child's life. A child from the earliest moments of his life depends on his parents to fulfill his every need. Parents are children's first educators and role models for them. Most children are lucky to have the desired home environment filled with love and compassion from their parents. However, if the relationship between the parents is strained due to any reason, then the child suffers the most. Usually when a child is born, parents put aside all their activities and their first priority is their child. Mutual affection and love, care and protection of parents is the guarantee of the child's flourishing. We live in the age of technology and technology has established its excessive influence in every sphere of life, including parenting and education of children. Thus, the responsibilities of raising a child for parents have increased many times compared to before. Human childhood consists of different stages like infancy, kindergarten, primary education, teenage years etc. Children at each stage require different care and nurturing. In infancy, it is important to protect children from infectious diseases and to receive re immunizations. |
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| Here are 7 manners that every parent should teach their children, so that their children grow up as polite and civilized individuals. |
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| بنیادی اخلاق و آداب کی تعلیم صرف دوسروں کے لیے عزت نہیں سکھاتی ،بلکہ ایک پرامن ماحول کی بنیاد بھی تخلیق کرتی ہے ۔ آپ بچوں کوجو کچھ سکھاتے ہیں ،وہ ان کے اندراچھے اوصاف پیدا کر کے ایک صحت مند معاشرے کی بنیاد رکھتے ہیں۔ |
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| یہاں پر 7 ایسے آداب بیان کئے جارہے ہیں، جنہیں ہر والدین کو اپنے بچوں کا سکھانا چاہیے ، تاکہ ان کے بچے ایک شائستہ اور مہذب فرد کی حیثیت سے پروان چڑھیں |
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Don't interrupt
| Tell the children the importance of not interrupting while talking to others. Ask them to listen quietly and attentively until the other person has finished speaking. In this way, they will also learn the importance of other people's opinions and ideas. |
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بات نہ کاٹیں
| بچوں کو دوسروں سے گفتگو کرتے ہوئے بات نہ کاٹنے کی اہمیت بتائیں ۔ان سے کہیں کہ جب تک مخاطب شخص اپنی بات مکمل نہ کر لے ،وہ خاموشی اور توجہ سے سنے۔اس طرح وہ دوسروں کی رائے اور خیالات کی اہمیت بھی سیکھ جائیں گے |
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Wait your turn
| Learning to wait your turn is an important lesson, whether it's in line at the store or waiting your turn while playing. |
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Use good wordsSoft and gentle words have the power of soul-satisfaction and loving manner.
| Teach children the influence of their alphabet on using polite language. Kindness and polite conversation create a good environment. |
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Sharing and caring
Teach children to share toys, or experiences, to develop feelings of cooperation and friendship.
Teaching them to share with their siblings, friends or visiting children builds their sense of community|
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اپنی باری کا انتظار کریں
اپنی باری کا انتظار سیکھانا ایک اہم سبق ہے ،خواہ وہ اسٹور کی لائن ہو یا کھیلتے وقت اپنی باری کا انتظار کرنا ہو
چھے الفاظ کا استعمال
نرم اور شگفتہ الفاظ روح کی تسکین اور محبت بھرے انداز کی طاق�� رکھتے ہیں ۔
بچوں کو مہذب زبان کے استعمال کے لیے ان کے الفاط کا اثر بتائیں ۔مہربانی اور شائشتہ گفتگو ایک اچھا ماحول بناتی ہے ۔ > شیئرنگ ازکیئرنگ
بچوں کو کھلونوں ،یا تجربات کو شیئر کرناسکھائیں ،تاکہ ان کےاندر تعاون اور دوستی کے جذبات پیدا ہوں ۔
اپنے بھائی بہنوں ، دوستوں یا مہمان بچوں کے ساتھ شیئر کرنا سکھانا انکی کمیونٹی کے شعور کو ابھارتا ہے
Automatic cleaning of the surrounding environment
| From toys strewn on the floor to dishes strewn on the dining table, teaching children to tidy up random objects instills a sense of responsibility in them. |
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Get permission
| Get kids used to asking permission before using anything, it instills a sense of respect for the boundaries parents set for themselves. |
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| Whether it's asking someone for a toy, or taking something from someone, or going out somewhere, it also lays the foundation for a healthy relationship. |
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To speak respectfully
Soft language with kind words conveys the feelings and understanding of others. Teach children to express themselves without using harsh words. Teach them that well-chosen words can affect relationships and reputations.|
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اردگرد کے ماحول کی ازخود صفائی
فرش پر پھیلے ہوئےکھلونوں سے لے کرڈائننگ ٹیبل پر پھیلے ہوئے برتنوں تک، بے ترتیب چیزوں کو سمیٹنا سکھانا ،بچوں ان کے اندر احساس ذمہ داری پیدا کرتا ہے ۔
اجازت لینا
بچوں کو کسی بھی چیز کے استعمال سے پہلےاجازت لینے کی عادت ڈالیں ،تویہ اپنے لیے والدیں کی طرف سے قائم کیے گئے حدود کی عزت کاتصور پیدا کرتا ہے ۔
اگر چہ وہ کسی سے کھلونا مانگنا ہو ،یا کسی کی کوئی شے لینی ہو، یا کہیں باہر جانا ہو ۔یہ ایک صحت مند تعلقات کی بنیاد بھی رکھتا ہے
عزت سے بات کرنا
اچھے الفاظ کے ساتھ نرم زبان، دوسروں کے احساسات اور ادراک کو ظاہر کرتا ہے ۔بچوں کو سخت الفاظ کے استعمال کے بغیر اظہار کا شعور پیدا کریں ۔انہیں سکھائیں کہ سمجھداری سے کیے گئے الفاظ تعلقات اور شہرت پر اثر انداز ہوتےہیں
| is beautiful but the most beautiful part of her is childhood. Children are like flowers. They are gentle and need to be cared for with great care and responsibility. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) set a great example of love for children. He used to shower love on his grandchildren. According to a blessed hadith, the Holy Prophet (PBUH) kissed Hazrat Hasan bin Ali (RA). At that time, Iqra bin Habs Tamimi was also sitting near him. He said: (O Messenger of Allah!) I have ten sons, but I have never kissed any of them. Upon this, the Holy Prophet looked at him and said: He who does not show mercy is not shown mercy. ( Sahih Bukhari). If parents want to see how successful they are in their lives, they can judge it by looking at their children. If the children are morally good, that is the success of the parents. Thus, children are the real measure of success or failure. Therefore, parents should teach their children good character and manners by creating a better environment within their homes. No blackboard, flip chart or multimedia is needed to teach morals to children, but as a parent, methods, habits, factors and words have a lasting impact on children's minds. The home environment is the single most important factor that has a profound effect on a child's life. A child from the earliest moments of his life depends on his parents to fulfill his every need. Parents are children's first educators and role models for them. Most children are lucky to have the desired home environment filled with love and compassion from their parents. However, if the relationship between the parents is strained due to any reason, then the child suffers the most. Usually when a child is born, parents put aside all their activities and their first priority is their child. Mutual affection and love, care and protection of parents is the guarantee of the child's flourishing. We live in the age of technology and technology has established its excessive influence in every sphere of life, including parenting and education of children. Thus, the responsibilities of raising a child for parents have increased many times compared to before. Human childhood consists of different stages like infancy, kindergarten, primary education, teenage years etc. Children at each stage require different care and nurturing. In infancy, it is important to protect children from infectious diseases and to receive regular immunizations. |
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