Send the wife to her mother's house

• I had a childhood friend, we spent our childhood together
  Earlier, there was no social media, no Facebook, no WhatsApp, so we all used to sit together and joke with each other till late at night.

• After this friend got married, we were far away from each other, so he left our city with his friends and brothers, but his father-in-law's house was in the same city. So we both were very happy to meet each other that day.

• One day he came to my house as a father-in-law and said, "Dar, I have eaten rice today, but I did not enjoy it." I teased him and said,

• He took a long drag on his cigarette and then said, man, let me tell you one thing, we have one sister. His father was so affectionate that he did not eat bread without sitting with him. When he got married, his in-laws were very strict. After a month or two, he was allowed to come to his parents' house. I cannot describe how I saw my father in agony and in tears. Even in the last days, he used to tell us to go and bring his sister, only for a few hours. We used to go as brothers, sitting for a long time, sometimes her husband would give permission and sometimes not, and when we would come back alone, my father would put a handkerchief on his face and cry with hiccups.

• My wife does not say, I ask her every day to introduce you to your mother?

• Friends, times have changed a lot, the culture of cities has changed a lot. But if you have brought someone's daughter, remember that you have brought a piece of someone's liver. The basis of your "dominion" or "manhood" should not be based on cutting your wife off the hook.

• Try not to tell your wife by yourself, keep asking her repeatedly that if she is missing her parents, then you can bring her to meet her family or send her. This is the first stage of mutual love in marriage. And then remember that tomorrow your daughter also has to go to her in-laws, and this yearning is very cruel.

Question: How to determine whether he is brave or a coward today?

• Reply:
• Cowardice is related to fear and bravery is related to fear. We will call brave the one who overcomes his desire, he is brave. A man who controls himself is brave.
  He who does not commit any mistake today that he will regret tomorrow, is brave.
  He is brave who is not ashamed of his parents, not ashamed of Allah and not ashamed of the Beloved of Allah, he is brave. And who creates shame here? Wishes! If he avoids those desires that bring regret, then he is brave.
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