In most of the homes of our society, it is a case that if the wife demands some money from her husband for pocket money, then the answer is from the front that "What will you do with the money, everything goes to you if you get it, everything." I bring it to you, tell me what you want, I will bring it, I don't have any useless money" means he will start giving speeches all over the world, but there is a chance that I will take out some money and put it in the hands of my wife that she might need something.
Then the poor woman is forced to sometimes stretch out her hands in front of her parents, sometimes she asks her sisters and sometimes she asks for a loan from her friends.
Allah, it is beyond my understanding how husbands can take care that my wife goes around asking for money from others while I am there.
It is obvious that he is also a human being, he also has needs, as a human being, he also wants to spend something, buy something of his choice, give something to his parents, siblings, friends, etc. I would like to give, I would like to give charity, I would like to help a poor person, I would also like to have some money with me at all times, which will come in handy in any situation.
She left her home, mother, father, sister, brother, everything for you, she gave herself and her life to you, surrendered herself to you, came to live under you, now she earns her own money. It does not go anywhere, so all its needs are your responsibility.
We spend thousands of rupees on hotels, tours, outings and other frivolities with friends and when our wife asks for some money, we start talking about different things.
Determine your wife's pocket money from your salary every month according to your ability. Whenever you get salary, come home and give your wife two thousand, five thousand, or ten thousand as much as you can afford. After spending, don't ask the wife to account for the money, where she spent it, how much she spent it, why she spent it, no, not at all.