Some ways to reduce life's abusive..

### Who does not want to cross the life of peace without any regret? Today you are working in the state you are in. You have many small and big decisions. So the decision you made today depends on your future. That future can be peace, and it can be regrettable. But we do not want to live with regret. So what should we do? How can we get rid of anger? Here are some things to discuss here. But before that we have to know what is the matter of regret? ### Suppose you go to your friend's wedding on tonight's train. You take just one hour from home to the station for the purpose. But you could not get to the station due to many jams in the street. The train started on your journey. At that time you will feel like you did not miss your friend's wedding 30 minutes before coming out of the house? This feeling is called regrets. Woe is that feeling when we think that our current situation could have been better if we had a different job or decision in the past. That is, there are two things that you need to regret. One, make a wrong decision. Two, imagination. ### Yes, to feel sorry, you have to imagine. If you made the wrong decision at that time your mind will go back and make the right decision in your imagination, then you will be wondering what the decision would have on your current situation. And the keenness of your imagination, the pain will be as sharp. That's why it's more difficult to not catch for 2 minutes than to get a train for 20 minutes. Because it is relatively easy to imagine this 2 minutes differently. ### It is said that the greatest fear of man is not death, death is due to mourning. Regrets may take slow form of depression too. Now the question is how can you stay away from this grief?  [source](https://www.google.com/search?q=%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%9C%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%8D%E0%A6%B7%E0%A6%AE%E0%A6%BE+%E0%A6%95%E0%A6%B0%E0%A6%A4%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%B6%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%96%E0%A7%81%E0%A6%A8&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjRse_WsOHgAhUPOSsKHTrcCKsQ_AUIDygC&biw=1280&bih=913#imgrc=hvNJobwbm4XpzM:) ### We all make mistakes. But few people can forget those mistakes. Making a mistake is a normal matter. But it is not normal for him to blame himself day after day. The more you scold your guilt, the more your regret will increase. So learn to forgive yourself. ### Take a moment and think about it. Are you in the time when you made a mistake, and now you are the same? The experience of this mistake has changed you a bit. You have understood your mistakes and people with an experience and knowledge can catch the mistakes made by themselves. This perception has turned you into a different person. So it does not make sense to hurt you for the previous person's work nowadays.  [source](https://www.google.com/search?q=%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%89%E0%A6%87+%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%96%E0%A7%81%E0%A6%81%E0%A6%A4+%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BE&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiL-eH7sOHgAhXTfH0KHb_JB08Q_AUIDygC&biw=1280&bih=864#imgrc=RqjhZ18tm7diVM:) ### Wrong 'is an integral part of human life. Wrong mistake helps us to grow, learn new things. Wrongly helps us to build new and better personalities. Trying to improve yourself and trying to make yourself perfect is two different things. No human can be perfect. The person you consider yourself to be ideal has also been in today's place through many trial & error. Our goal should be to become a better person every day, better than yesterday itself. If you are hoping to be perfect, the posture will come and you will be junked.  [source](https://www.google.com/search?q=%E0%A6%AD%E0%A7%81%E0%A6%B2+%E0%A6%A5%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%B6%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%8D%E0%A6%B7%E0%A6%BE+%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%A8&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjJ-aujseHgAhWDV30KHQe8AL4Q_AUIDygC&biw=1280&bih=864#imgrc=WDl10u8_7EQvkM:) ### The next step to forgive yourself is to learn from mistakes. What does this experience mean to you? Should you do any more work? Or should any work be reduced? What do you do to make this mistake again? The hardest experiences of life always teach us something. If you can learn something from an experience and apply that education to the next experience, that will be your reason. Only then will you be able to live without regret.  [source](https://www.google.com/search?q=%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%9C%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%B0+%E0%A6%B8%E0%A7%8D%E0%A6%AC%E0%A6%AA%E0%A7%8D%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%95%E0%A6%96%E0%A6%A8%E0%A7%8B+%E0%A6%AD%E0%A7%81%E0%A6%B2%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%AF%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%AC%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%A8+%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BE&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjl88i-seHgAhUMbisKHY_IBloQ_AUIECgD&biw=1280&bih=864#imgrc=B7Aj5LWRt4QnQM:) ### A statistics about 100 elderly people in a hospital can be seen that the biggest regret of most of their lives is not to do any wrong, but to avoid doing any particular thing, do not try to fulfill any dreams, any desires. Life is just a tiring weekend, a tired Friday, and not waiting for that special 'any one day' to meet your dreams. If you want to be happy, you have to try it. And the beginning of the effort is today. If the right time is waiting, that time will never come.   ### An airplane is losing much faster performance while on the ground. But when the plane is flying in the sky, it is less likely to crash it. Because the planes have been made to fly in the sky. It is not his job to fall on the ground. People are just like that.   ### Every human has a special power. Maybe you can paint a very good picture. Or maybe you can sing a very good song. Apply your special quality and make your expertise your profession. That's all you have to gain. If you work with your own happiness, you will get happiness, and if you work happily then you have more chance of success . So follow your ideology without being tied to the age line and choose your desired work accordingly today. Otherwise, maybe there will be many 'if ...' in the last days of life.  [source](https://www.google.com/search?q=%E0%A6%86%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%8D%E0%A6%B7%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%AA+%E0%A6%A8%E0%A6%BF%E0%A7%9F%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%86%E0%A6%95%E0%A7%8D%E0%A6%B7%E0%A7%87%E0%A6%AA+%E0%A6%95%E0%A6%B0%E0%A6%BE+%E0%A6%9B%E0%A7%87%E0%A7%9C%E0%A7%87+%E0%A6%A6%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%A8&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiKl4LpseHgAhXGfysKHdffDUIQ_AUIECgD&biw=1280&bih=864#imgrc=M8MxLf_c1zYrBM:) ### The prohibition against repeating you repeatedly does not mean that regret is no wrong. Rather, it is our natural tendency to apologize for the mistake of making mistakes. The work of a special part of our brain is to create guilt among us. Whom