When we eat more, we know we will get fat. When I drink too much, I know I will have a headache the next morning. When I drive under the influence of alcohol, I choose to die in an accident or to crush someone. When I misbehave with Bro, I know that he will treat me badly if given the chance. When we don't care about other people, we understand that they won't care about us either. There are some consequences to choosing a particular type of life Can be chosen in a new way, but once controlled. We have equal opportunities in our respective lifestyles, but we become different from each other as we pursue our chosen lifestyles. Life is like a potter's factory, from which many sizes of pots, jugs, pots can be made. In the same way we can build life the way we want. But making different pots requires different types of techniques.
How is life full of compromises? : Life is not only joy and hustle and bustle, there is a lot of pain and frustration in life. Many new things happen. Many times everything turns upside down. Even good people fall into extreme situations. Some events are beyond human ability, such as physical or birth defects. We cannot choose our motherhood.
We have no control over birth. In that case, if there is any cause of misfortune, it must be sad. But will we just regret it, or will we try our best to do what we have? This is the decision to make.
On a clear day, hundreds of boats sail in different directions in the water of the lake. Although the wind blows in one direction, the sailing boats travel in different directions. How? It depends on how their sails are planted. And the one who sails the boat turns the sails in that direction to go in a certain direction. This is also true of our lives. We cannot change the direction of the wind, but we can determine how to use the sails of life to take advantage of the speed of the wind.
We cannot create the environment we want, but we can make our attitudes work for us. That attitude will be the attitude of the winner in all adverse conditions, not the attitude of the loser. Us. Attitude determines our destiny.
"Rainbows are formed by the combination of clouds and sunshine. Our lives are no exception. There is also happiness and sorrow, good and evil, darkness and light. If we can overcome adversity with a 'proper' attitude, our strength increases. We can't control all of them, we can't control how we deal with them. Richard Blechnyden tried to popularize Indian tea at the St. Louis World's Fair in 1904. No one is interested in special tea because it is hot, but other cold drinks are doing a lot of business. Then he decided and people liked it. Thus, cold tea became the first drink in the world.
When there is a disaster in life, we can deal with it either responsibly or with anger. The fruit of the oak tree has no power of choice, but man cannot fix the seed of the oak tree. He will not be his giant tree, he will be the food of squirrels. The seed cannot make any decision about this, people have the forgiveness to choose. If nature gives us a lemon in our hand, then we can choose, we will be disappointed in the miserliness of nature, or we will use the lemon to make lemonade.


