One morning someone woke up happy and called me and said, “Hey, you're one of the greatest people in the world. You are doing a very good job, and I would be very honored to introduce you as my friend. "How would I feel when I heard this? Very good. A swindler, a scoundrel. You're the biggest swindler in town. " So how do I feel? Too bad. The thing is, when a gentleman says you're a good person, I feel very good, and when I say, 'I'm a badass, I feel very bad. Who controls my mood? That person. Will my life be controlled by the words of others like this? It shouldn't be.
I want to be guided by the power of the heart. When the gentleman says on the telephone that I am a very good person, it must be nice to hear that. But even if that person doesn't say those things, I am still a good person in my own judgment. The next day, when the person is almost on the telephone, there is no reason to listen; Because in my own judgment I am a gentleman. When people say, "You're making me angry," the source of the anger is outside, but if I say, "I'm angry," the source of the anger is in my heart.
There is a story of an ancient Indian sage. A pedestrian was giving him many ugly titles. The sage listened to it unwaveringly. Eventually all the man's bad words were over. Then the sage asked the man, "Who is entitled to the offerings made to the gods if they are not accepted?" The man replied, "The offerings are due to him." The sage replied, "I am not accepting your offering," and the sage left, astonishing the man. The power of the sage is the power of his heart. As long as we are guided by external forces, our sorrows will not end, and we will feel helpless. No change in us until we take responsibility for our feelings and behavior. Will not First you need to ask yourself this question,
Why did I get upset?
Why did the mental exhaustion come?
Why did I get angry?
From the answer to the question, we will get the formula to overcome this situation. Happiness is the result of positive self-esteem. There are many answers to this question. In many cases the need is material; But he does not find real happiness. Happiness is a matter of human heart, happiness is not a matter of ownership of objects. You may not be happy even if you have everything you need for life. The opposite is also true, meaning you can be happy even if you don't have a lot of things. Happiness is the thing of the heart, happiness goes to catch like a butterfly, will fly away; Stand still, the butterfly will fly and sit on you. Create a belief in your mind so that you are happy when our normal emotions are disturbed causing bitterness. As a result, the desire to do good to others also becomes numb. That is why one should set a standard about oneself. Be honest with yourself and try to overcome your negative tendencies. Do the following.
Look at the positive side of every person and every event. Decide to be happy.
Set your own criteria wisely. Be steadfast in negative criticism.
Learn to enjoy every little thing.
Remember, time does not go equal. Good, bad is part of life.
Take full advantage of every situation. Engage yourself in constructive work.
Engage in constructive work.
Help those who are less fortunate than you.
Learn to overcome adversity. Don't worry. Forgive yourself and others. Don't use people's faults against him, or hate anyone.
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