See, you are suffering from loneliness means you are suffering from some reason. Because you said you can't socialize easily. As far as I know, those who don't get along easily enjoy solitude, love to be alone. I think you are suffering from loneliness because you have been hurt by someone or something. Feeling alone.
I will tell you something about this.
First of all, change your thinking that you are alone and suffering. To be honest, now I can say this with my own experience - spending time alone, being alone is a blessing for myself. Not everyone gets this opportunity, and those who do, don't understand its meaning.
If you can use this time, you will be able to give your life a new dimension. Talking about friends? We think friends are very important in life, but I think now, putting yourself first is very important. Stand first in life then you don't have to worry, you don't have to mix with anyone. Everyone will come to you to be your friend. Real friends are from childhood, they become childhood friends after growing up. Let me tell you the reason, if you move forward in life and your friend falls behind, then there will be a rift in that friendship. And if you fall back, even if he moves forward, he won't care about you anymore. With very few exceptions, this scene happens in everyone's life. So, there's nothing to be disappointed about if you can't make friends. Yes, you can find a life partner who will give you time, understand you, support you. But nowadays it is a matter of luck to find such minded people. So don't despair, if you are good yourself then hopefully whoever comes into your life will keep you good.
I beg you, do not waste such a beautiful time, thinking that you are suffering from loneliness. If you feel that you are alone, there is no one around you, no one loves you, no one is friends with you, then you will gradually become mentally ill. Because at the root of all our problems are our thoughts. What you are thinking in this moment is what you are attracting into life. If you think you are a miserable person then you are attracting misery. Believe it or not the law of attraction is working all the time.
Change the thought with a little effort, you think this, from today I will enjoy being alone, I will be the best in the work I am associated with. I will do something that will surprise everyone. I am very well and healthy. Say this out loud every morning when you wake up and say it again at night before you go to sleep. If you can do this by heart for twenty one days you will hopefully benefit.
Let me give you an example of myself - I couldn't stay without talking to someone for a while. I loved to mingle with people. But now I live alone. My husband is busy with work and cannot give me time. What was there for me to do now, one, to cry and think myself a miserable man, to sink into despair. Life would have become unbearable. I used to quarrel with my husband. After a while he would get annoyed with me. Then the problem would increase.
But no, I didn't do that. I am always smiling and happy, alone. And we are very similar. I understand his problem. As a result, it can work for sure.
The reason is, I take loneliness as a positive, and use this time. I don't really have time to talk to anyone right now. I don't talk to anyone now except my father and sister.
By doing this I can move myself forward.
So, if you take loneliness as a positive, then thousands of roads will open before you. You will be able to concentrate beautifully on the task at hand and reach your goals.
If we accept the time as it comes to us, there is no problem. But if we don't obey him, we complain about what we don't get, then it's a big problem.
Here are some small tips from me for you-
1. Read knowledge books.
2. Buy some paints, and paint what you can. Do whatever you want.
3. Be immersed in work, work with love.
4. Help a helpless person by giving whatever you can. It can be alone or by doing some work.
5. In the evening, go for a walk on the streets. Look at people's faces. Try to understand their attitude.
6. Spend some time with nature every day, and don't just sit there, try to read their language, notice the beautiful swings they exchange with each other. Try it for a few days and you will like it.
7. If someone talks negatively, walk away quickly.
8. Read biographies of people. And read the scriptures by heart.
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