Dear daughter-in-law, Let me begin by congratulating you on your marriage to my son. I know the preparations must have cost you a lot but in all, marriage is just beginning after the ceremonies. Please, I want you to note that you may see an entirely different man when you get home. This is just to let you know that the real marriage is not in courtship. Do not be scared at all, it is just something you can manage. Men change like a chameleon. The situation they face outside may follow them home. Most times, it leads to transferred aggression, ensuring to know how to handle him like a child. You should also know that things may not turn out to be rosy always. It is your duty to keep him happy even in his downtime. I would like to make you know that the kitchen isn't your responsibility neither is it his responsibility to provide all your needs. Any one of you who is advantaged can fill the gap. No law states that you must be the sole provider or kitchen observer in a marriage. As such, ensure to make your husband do some things in the kitchen. If you do laundry by hand, do not keep your husband at arm's length. Men do laundry too, ok. When you have children, do not take all the responsibility of nurturing the child. Make your husband bear the joys and tears that come with it. That is how he comes to cherish his home. This is my candid advice as you walk into the marriage and build a happy home. I will be writing to you again to give you more insights on how to make your husband my son, the man or husband you want him to be. Your father-in-law. Cheers.
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