Since men have to perform many important and difficult tasks; So he was given the opportunity to enjoy some social dominance and benefits like authority and leadership.
First of all, he has to be the economic guru. He is responsible for the overall expenses of the family. On the other hand, if the wife is rich, even if she is financially independent, then the husband is responsible for her maintenance. In an idealistic Muslim society, women do not have to worry about making a living. There is such a large family range that he can take his place somewhere. Even in the absence of her husband or father, this family system will find a way out of her shelter and financial stress. In this large Islamic family, a responsible person not only takes care of his wife and children, but also helps his mother, niece, aunt, uncle, sister-in-law, mother-in-law and even cousins and distant relatives when needed. So in urban life, as a Muslim woman spends all her energy to find a job and every family in life is an economic unit, all the needs of the family are met from within or through joint efforts. As a result, women do not have to engage in useless economic activities.
Second, a Muslim woman cannot find a husband for herself, nor can she show off her beauty - with which she can attract anyone and hope to find her husband in the future. As a result, a Muslim woman is completely free from the terrible worries of finding someone as her husband and the pain of not getting one. According to the woman's natural characteristic demands, she stays at home until her parents or guardians find a suitable groom for her. This type of marriage is the real religious marriage and it is in this that family and social bonds are established. Most of the marriages that take place due to the emotions of the moment may not be permanent. But marriages that take place with the constant consideration of the parents are often permanent and divorce does not usually occur in these marriages.
Third, Muslim women are free from direct participation in bloody wars and politics, except for a rare need. This may seem like a deprivation to many. But judging by the real needs of women, it can be seen that for most of the women, participation in these activities has proved to be very heavy and difficult. Even in modern societies the process of equalizing men and women is being carried out in a 'communist' manner and in all societies women are being kept away from participating in the armed forces until an extreme situation arises.
Elsewhere in his book, The Ideology and Reality of Islam, Sayyid Hussein Nasr said, The most important of these is the gift of a nest of peace for the family and raising children properly. The role of the wife in the family is like that of the empress. And the man is his family's honored guest. The world of Muslim women is the home environment in which she lives. For a woman, being separated from home means being separated from the world or jumping to the brink of death. The Muslim woman finds the essence of her existence in the large family infrastructure and in this family there is an element of fulfillment of all her needs and contentment.
Shariah indicates the actions and position of men and women in society as complementary to each other according to their nature. It gives the man social and political dominance because he bears all the responsibilities of his family and protects the family from all financial, social and other pressures. Although the man rules in the kingdom outside the home and is the head of the family, he obeys the wife's discipline in the home with respect.
In each Muslim family, the husband and wife, by mutual consent, fulfill the responsibilities that God has entrusted to men and women individually and build a strong family that is one of the basic units for the whole social structure. ”
Proponents of the women's liberation movement in the Christian world, in their rebellion against moral, cultural and spiritual values, and in denying the necessity of the family system, are in fact denying the whole legacy of their own civilization and have rebelled against it.
Modern Europe is well aware that social cohesion, peace, stability and unity prevailed in medieval Christian society despite the evils of the feudal system and the oppression of the priests. The following is a brief account of the values practiced by Christian families in medieval Europe by the famous German painter Albert Dরrer (1461-1526), a devout Christian, from his family chronicle.
My revered father, Albert Dরrer, went to Germany and stayed there for a long time in a low countryside. He then moved to Nuremberg on St. Elijah's Day (July 25), 1455. That day was Philip Parkimer's wedding day. For this the house was arranged and a guest reception was arranged under a large lime tree. From then until 148, for many years, my dear father, Albert Dura, cared for the old Hernonaimus Hopper. Hopper then married his 15-year-old beautiful, well-mannered and pious daughter, Barbara. The wedding took place 7 days before St. Vitus Day (June 6). This majestic mother of mine gave birth to 6 children and raised them. He has had to deal with infectious diseases and serious illnesses and has endured severe starvation, ridicule, ridicule, contempt and anxiety; But he never harbored any anxiety or desire for revenge. The children of my beloved father, one of my brothers and sisters all died, some at a young age and some at adulthood. Only we three brothers are still alive and will live as long as the Lord wants. These three brothers are me Albert, my brother Andreas and my brother Hans. Hans is not my father's child. My father was the eldest of his brothers. He has worked hard all his life. He has earned his living by himself and his wife and children. There were many sorrows, temptations and adversities in his life.
Grateful to God, benevolent to man, patient, humble, this man was an ideal Christian. Everyone who knew him praised him. He had little to ask from the society. He was a man of few words and a God-fearing man. This great father of mine was very anxious to teach his children godliness. Her greatest hope was to raise her children in the sight of God and man. That is why he always advised us to love God and to be kind to people. He was especially attracted to me because I was very interested in education. That's why he sent me to school. Now that I had learned to read and write, he took me out of school and taught me goldsmithing. When I became proficient in this art, I realized that it is better to be a painter than a goldsmith. When I told this to my father, he was not happy to hear it and regretted the time he had lost as an apprentice. But in the end he allowed me to go on as I wished, and on St. Andrew's Day (November 30, 148) my father appointed me apprentice for three years under Mikhail and Lazmiot. Even then the Lord gave me the strength to work hard and this is when I learned the subject well. But I was very oppressed by my teacher's colleagues. When I returned home after school, Hansfrey talked to my father and decided to marry his daughter Agnes. He also gave me 200 fluorine along with Agnes. We were married on Monday, July 6, 1494, just before St. Margaret's Day.
Shortly thereafter, my father contracted dysentery and did not recover from any treatment. When he saw death approaching, he surrendered himself to her very calmly and patiently, instructing me to take care of my mother and to live according to God's commandments for all of us. The last Sacrament Day (Christian Feast Day) of his life passed and he accepted the death of a Christian saint. He left my mother as a widow. My father always praised my mother while I was alive. She used to say ‘Your mother is a very good girl.’ That is why I am determined to never forget my mother.
My friends, I say to you in the name of God, when you read the story of the death of this righteous Father of mine, you will pray to Christ and to Mother Mary for his worldly welfare and for your own good, that God may grant us a prosperous life through His service. Gives a benevolent death. It is never possible for a person to live a good life and die an unlucky death Because God is merciful.
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