The real biography of a divorced woman
Before the divorce, the father-in-law's house seemed like a prison. After the divorce, now your own home feels like hell.
I do not know why I am writing? Maybe it's because I want no one else to make mistakes like me. Maybe it's because I don't want the world to fall apart because of the weak. I am a nineteen year old woman. We got married to my liking. The world also survived the years. We also have a son, he is one year old. My husband's temperament was all very good. Just a little stubborn. Of course, not always, sometimes. People understand this situation today because of his bad zeal. But I know our problem didn't start with him.
There are some problems in all the world. There were occasional quarrels between us like that. But as soon as there was a quarrel, I would pack up and walk to my father's house. Sisters used to come to my father's house, and there were brothers. I would tell them everything in tears. Then everyone would call him and listen. My younger sister used to insult me. I also thought it was okay. What great courage comes to me. Wants me to run like myself. What a stubbornness worked in me. I will be small to him, I will admit my mistake to him, I will apologize, I could not think of it. On the contrary, I would shout, “Divorce! Who lives with a man like you? ” Nah, divorce I never wanted from the heart. That was word of mouth. It seemed better to me to ask for a divorce than to be small in front of him.
I still remember one day. They both deal with their confidence as they choose to embark on their play activities. My body is shaking with anger. That's what I'm talking about. Tui-tokari, blasphemy, insults, nothing was left out. At one point my husband broke the barrier of endurance and put his hand on my body. He had never touched me before or since. But that one slap, that was enough.
I went to my father's house. And yes, as always, I did not say my own side, I just said his side. What is the benefit of human guilt! They have judged based on what I have told everyone. Everyone in the family said there was no need to start a family with such a boy. Hit the case. I sued on everyone's advice. A case of torture of women was filed in her name. He was quickly taken away by the police. The elders from his family repeatedly asked me to take up the case. Inside, I was thinking, well, is my husband really cruel? Has he ever laid his hands on me? If I hadn't listened to him so much, would he have laid his hands on me that day? My parents explained it to me. If I go back after so much, he will think I am helpless. Will get me more. The stick will turn on me at will. Raising your hand once means you will do the same thing over and over again. So there is no question of going back on your own.
But he was not the kind of person who would shout in my mind. The day he laid his hands on me, he knelt down and apologized to me. Thinking about all this, I took up the case. But I did not go back to him. A few days later, there was a trial between the two families. Everyone was found guilty. Everyone understood and advised him. Then I started the family again.
The next few months were going well but we got into a fight again. I packed my clothes and went back to my father's house. I heard that he is very ill! When I wanted to go home, my family said, "It doesn't look good to come back alone after a fight like this." And my sisters were talking about nothing sick, all excuses!
We wanted some relatives from that side to come and admit his mistake and take me by the hand and foot. But this time no one came. A few days later, he sent me a divorce letter. Everyone in our family was furious when they saw the divorce letter. He sends a divorce letter on how much courage he has put his daughter in so much trouble. Everyone's words made me think, what a great courage! Want to divorce me? All his mistakes seemed to float on his eyes. My parents reminded me that he was the boy who had laid his hands on me. Burning in the fire of revenge, I also decided to divorce. Who wants to make a family of nonsense? I went to the court and tried to harass him. I demanded a skyrocketing increase in my monthly expenses. I wanted her back to the wall. As if he wants to come to me by himself and start a family again. In fact, I never wanted a divorce But stubbornness was eating me. It is impossible for me to ask her to file for divorce. I couldn't accept being younger than him.
But surprisingly, all my demands were met. I got our son. Maintenance, monthly expenses, all his property! In return he got only divorce. We have been divorced for three and a half years now.
He got married again. It is understood that there is happiness. In fact, girls may be happy with a husband like her.
Now I feel sorry for myself. The words of a man's mouth can sometimes be sharper than a knife. He slapped me once but I would tear him to pieces. It is true that I was not physically abused, but mentally hurt. My parents never said these things. How much do people talk about their own faults? Sometimes I think Ish! My family would have advised me to start a family if I understood a little on my own. When I wanted to go back to him, I would not say bad things about him, but I would remind him of the good things! I would have bowed to him a little if I had not fallen into my own stubbornness. Then maybe I shouldn't have seen this day. Before the divorce, the father-in-law's house seemed like a prison, but after the divorce, his own house now feels like hell.
Today, all my siblings and friends have their own families, but I have forgotten everything. So I pray that it does not happen to anyone else.
No matter what the situation, divorce never brings happiness. At least no girl can be happy. 😔
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