Happy and family Become an Interesting Couple

 Become an Interesting Couple EACH pair in the household certainly crave looks attractive. Interesting is something that is relative, or varies according to everyone's view. But what must be held by every husband and wife is that physical needs are one of the core needs that must be fulfilled. Keep in mind that there is a difference between physical strength and the strength of the relationship between husband and wife, even though there is a very strong relationship between the two. In theory it can be said, the power of the relationship between the body of a husband and wife can be realized by the existence of physical strength. But in some cases, a wife can feel sexual satisfaction with a husband who lacks physical strength. Even so, what must be held by every husband or wife is, "romance shares" will increase with a sense of mutual interest with each other. Pay attention to weight Body weight is an important element of physical attraction. Most of the husbands feel less interested in the body of the wife who has an ideal weight (fat). Likewise the wife. As is known, body fitness and reasonable weight greatly affect the physical health of each individual. Therefore it is expected that every husband and wife who are blessed with a fat body to always try to reduce their weight and try to maintain their fitness. Besides being able to maintain household romance, it can also make the colors of life brighter and happier. Enchanting As we all know, weight is not the only important element in strengthening the love relationship between husband and wife. because many other things such as: clothes, hair styling, makeup and a healthy personality are also very important factors in household harmony. Here are some of the stories from the scholars that we can make guidelines for household harmony: Ibn Abbas said, "I like to dress up for my wife as I want her to also dress up for me," Because Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala said, 'And women have rights that are balanced with their obligations in a good way.' (Al-Baqarah: 228). But of course, the makeup of a husband must be in accordance with his age and position. Some scholars argue, "The way to dress a man depends on each condition. Sometimes there are several ways to dress up accordingly at a time, but not appropriate at other times. There are special dressings for young people, and there are special dressings for the elderly. Also in the right way to choose clothes. All that is to make your wife happy and make her proud of her husband. " One time the Prophet established a brotherhood between Salman and Abu Darda. When Salman visited Abu Darda's house, he saw Abu Darda's wife not dressed properly. Then Salman asked, "Why are you so?" Abu Darda's wife replied, "Your brother (Abu Darda ') does not want the world." (Bukhari) 'Aisha once said, "In the past, the wife of' Uthman Ibn Mazhun dressed and dressed up, but now no longer." Then I asked him, "Is your husband there?" 'Uthman's wife replied, "Yes or no, because he do not want the world or women. ”(Ahmad) Abu Musa al-Asy'ari said, "Once the wife of 'Uthman Ibn Mazhun arrived together with the wives of the Prophet with a messy appearance (not dressing up)". The Prophet's wives asked, "Why don't you dress up while your husband is the richest person in the tribe of Quraysh?" Ibn Mazhun's wife replied, "Even though he is the richest person, what does that mean to me. Every afternoon he fasted, the night he worshiped. "When the Prophet came, the Prophet's wives told him about it. Then the Prophet met with 'Uthman Ibn Mazhun and asked, "Do you have any example other than me?" Ibn Mazhun replied, "Of course not, O Messenger of Allah". Then the Messenger of Allah advised him, "How do you fast every day and worship at night, while your family and body have rights? Pray then sleep, be satisfied and then open. " After the incident, Ibn Mazhun's wife always appeared cheerfully like a newlywed. The wives of the Prophet were surprised, "How come, why did you change that?" The wife of Ibn Mazhun replied, "We have lived like other people are happy." Anas said, "When Abu Talha's son died, Abu Talha's wife told his family," Don't tell Abu Talha. I'll just talk. " Anas continued his account, "When Abu Talha came (from a traveling trip), his wife welcomed him with dishes and body makeup that was so special that he had never done it before. After eating and drinking with satisfaction, he invited his wife to make love. "When his wife knew that Abu Talha was full, happy, and satisfied, then he opened the conversation with makeup," O Abu Talha, if there is only a people who lend their yard to a place stay with someone else, then he asks for it again, can the borrower refuse? " Abu Talha answered, "Of course not, because it's the owner's right to ask for it again." Suddenly his wife delivered the sad news of her son's death. Hearing that Abu Talhah was angry and said, "You have made me think everywhere just because you want to tell the death of our child?" Then Abu Talha rushed out and met the Prophet and told the news of his son's death. Then Rasulullah Shalallaahu ‘Alahi Wasallam said," May Allah bless what you two did that night. "Anas ended his narration," After that Abu Talha's wife became pregnant. "(Muslim). * Greeting ® HERMAN ™