How can a 25-year-old educated youth be self-reliant at present?

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A 25 year old youth has come to his senses now the youth is free to make his own decisions. Advising a mature person to be self-reliant is foolish and taking that advice is nothing but foolishness. What has he spent all these years for and how can he become self-reliant even in a changed state? Such a male life will always fail.