The ground to trust that God's will is actually happening to you in seemingly unpleasant situations is that you love God and live according to his purpose.
Scripture says, "all things works together to those that love God and live according to his purpose". If your love for God is selfless, genuine and pure then consequent upon your awareness of God's purpose you fulfill the very demands of God, then trust God no matter the weather. It's working for your good.
All the events and orchestrations around you are not accidents, God is intentional about your formation. They may not be very pleasant to you but it's working for your good.
They are actually called The dealings if God. God is forming something in you.
Your testimony is your message, your message is your mandate and your mandate is a product of your dealings. Don't just be in a hurry to cross the red Sea, take note of how it looks and what you are experiencing, it's your message to your generation.
Your generation may not agree to listen to you till you have been fully schooled. Learn in your unpleasant days. The shifted hip of Jacob was his message to his generation. Your hip may have to shift for you to come into alignment.
The dealings of God in our lives makes us used to divine culture and installs in us the ways of God.
Understanding the path ways is the first key to the prophetic.
God speaks, the only thing is that you don't comprehend.
Be intentional about life. Nothing is actually a mistake. Trust God. So the world will gather around you to hear your testimony.
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