Role of parents in our lives

B
bilal
I hope you all are fine and taking best care of yourselves as well as your family members. Well, today I am here with an important and interesting topic. Today I am going to share my observation and views about the importance and the role of our parents in our lives. Dear readers and passionate learners, I want to convey my message all around the world by using this great and effective social media platform. I have seen many people, they do not respect and follow the advice, order and instructions of their parents. They are always in the habit of teasing their parents even in front of their children. I have seen many cases in which parents are badly tortured by their own child's. After seeing such cases, my heart is broken in to many pieces and I my self felt that if we want to go into the heaven we must respect our parents. As Allah says in the Holy Quran;

 Our mother and father, they play an important role for developing good qualities and in the formation of good character. About the importance of character, someone says that;
" If wealth is lost nothing is lost,
If health is lost something is lost, 
But if character is list everything is lost.
"
our Parents not only feed us but also provide us almost all the facilities which we can demand. They always try their level best to make us the useful member of the society by getting us education. They face almost all the problems and look after us. They are infact our real leaders. 
it is no doubt about it that our parents are our real leaders. They are basically our entire world. About the importance of mother, our Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH once said;

Parents should also try to make such necessary steps in which they develop good manners in their children. They should teach their children the lesson of bravery, honesty, sincerity, ethics, moral values and good manners. 



Here I want to share an Interesting event about the importance of parents. Once a person came to our Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH and said, 
" What are rights of my parents which are on me" then our Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH replied, 
"Your parents are hell and heaven for you".
Here, what is the meaning of this Hadith? 
Why our Holy Prophet (PBUH) said so?
Let me explain it and try to understand the actual meaning of this Hadith that if we follow the instructions of our parents, if we respect our parents, if our behavior is good then we will go in heaven. While on the other hand, if we are not following the instructions of our parents then we will go in hell. So we must follow the instructions of our parents and try our level best to serve our parents and also offer prayer for them.

In short, we should always obey and respect our parents. I hope you will like my post. Have a nice day. Alllah Hafiz....

Comments

Yes parents are gift of God

ayesha

Motivational... We are going away from our normal values. Your writings are really reminding us our norms and values. Keep it up

eliaz

We must value our parents before we lose them.