Meet the proposed bride.

If a Muslim decides to get married and offers to marry a certain girl, it is lawful for the proposer to see her before the marriage ceremony. If the task of seeing this is done, he can move forward knowingly. It is not advisable to proceed with such work by closing one's eyes. Because it can lead to remorse and frustration. If this system is implemented, there should be no fear.

 

In fact the eye or vision represents the mind. As a result, it is very possible for the two eyes to meet in the heart of the two. Husband and wife (bride and groom) are expected to create harmony and sincerity before marriage, which is essential for the stability of married life.

 

I was present at Rasulullah Kareem (peace be upon him). At that time a person came there. He decided to marry the Prophet (peace be upon him) to a woman of Ansar descent. Then the Prophet (peace be upon him) asked: Have you seen him? The man said: No. Then the Prophet (peace be upon him) asked: Have you seen him? The man said: No. Then the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Go now and see him. Because there is something (error) in the eyes of the girls of Ansar clan.

 

You see him first. Because in this pre-marital philosophy, there is a great possibility of reconciliation between you. The Mughiras came to the girl's parents and told them what the Prophet (peace be upon him) had said. They didn't think it was a good idea. But when the girl herself heard this from behind the curtain, she said, "If the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told you to look, then look." Mugira said: Hearing this from the girl, I saw her and married her.

 

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not explicitly specify the extent to which the proposed bride could be seen. Some experts say that only the face and the paws can be seen. But in the case of the proposed bride, it is not a special arrangement, it is also effective in seeing the unmarried woman. Even if the message of marriage is not given, it is permissible to see it. If the marriage message is given, the permission to see the girl concerned proves that it is permissible to see as much as it is permissible to see in normal circumstances, and in that case it must be permissible to see more than that.