Let us change our minds.

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim.

Aschalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wabarkatuhu.

 

An important video to change our behavior.

 

                        First event

 

A long time ago my father let a poor family live in his vacant land.

After several years, when father asked to leave the land to build a house, they refused to leave. After much effort, they were removed with money.

What I understood from hearing is that if one stays in a land for a long time, one's rights are born in it.

I am surprised. Please stay. Where to be grateful, Tana is sitting opposite. I thought about the land

So he could not handle the greed.

 

                       Second event

 

My native has a rickshaw puller where I live. If he is in the market, I come in his rickshaw. The fare from the market to my house is fixed at 40 taka. But I used to pay 50 rupees regularly.

One day I had 45 rupees in retail. I gave that money. As soon as he gave the money, he shouted, and 5 taka? I kept quiet for a while and said, "The rent is 40 taka, the remaining 5 taka is returned." The man laughed and said no, he always pays 50 taka, so I said. I thought, poor people, that's why.

 

                         Third event

 

a colleague of mine Being pregnant and working in the office, I saw her suffering and took responsibility for one of her tasks.

She went on maternity leave. He came back. When I asked him to return the work, he began to sulk. The feeling is that the work was mine. such a feeling Now I changed my mind.

 

                     education

 

In fact, if people enjoy a benefit for a long time, they consider it their right.

 Let us forget -- It's facility, not right.

So it is necessary to be careful not only in giving benefits, but also in taking them. The mental behavior is very strange. It works for almost everyone.

 

             

              

                     First event

 

 Aunty used to give me breakfast every day while I was doing tuition. Suddenly I felt very bad for not giving breakfast for 2-3 consecutive days, oh no breakfast.

Later, however, I surprised myself at my own behavior. There was never an agreement with me about the parent's breakfast.

They are not obliged to give me breakfast.

Instead, I should have thanked them for the breakfast.

It is important to understand which rights and which are extra.

 

                  Second event

I am a teacher, used to go to college by auto. Many of my students used to take the auto. Often used to pay my rent but one day a student got into the auto and got off with her Maya. I felt bad but why? Why did it feel bad? This bad feeling is a bad habit. That needs to change soon.