How should one treat relatives?

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim.

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi Barkatuhu.

Dear friends, I hope you are all well, I am also well and healthy with your prayers and the infinite mercy of Allah Ta'ala. Today my topic of discussion will be some words about faith. Welcome and congratulations to all of you in this post.

Being sincere to relatives, Allah Ta'ala has sent us to this world, friends, relatives, parents, brothers and sisters, etc. And these have been given to us as a test case. Not only that they have been given. Every work of our worldly life will turn into worship and Allah Ta'ala will give us all of it. Therefore, we should pay special attention to our daily activities, movements, conversations, etc. so that our every word, every action, every deed is considered worship. One such area is relatives.

Our biggest relatives in this world are our mother and father. Our parents are the closest and closest relatives. We have to destroy our first sincere treatment with them. They have to be engaged in their service in every situation and moment. Allah Almighty has said how to treat our parents in the Quran and our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has said in his hadith. Allah is happy with the happiness of the father. So how should we treat our father that if the father is happy, Allah Almighty will be happy and agree with us. Therefore, the golden opportunity for those of us whose father is alive is to serve our father, keep him happy, inquire about his food and drink, take care of him, etc. etc. May he not be upset with us in any way. And whatever we do is for the sake of Allah Almighty. Because if my father is happy with me, Allah Almighty Himself will be happy with me. If my father is unhappy with me, Allah Almighty Himself will be unhappy with me.

Then the child's paradise lies under the feet of the mother. The Almighty Allah has created a busy life for his servant and if that heaven is under the feet of the mother, then it is not a question, so one should be very careful with the mother, one should be sincere with the mother because the Almighty Allah knows the secret of the heart, only Allah knows why and for what purpose I love my mother, no one else knows. Therefore, one should love the mother sincerely with kind love so that the mother never becomes unhappy with her child.

Then one should be sincere towards the brother and sister, one should treat him honestly, one should be diligent about the right. One should warn him about whether the brother is doing the day's work, one should love him, one should be with him, one should discipline him, one should love him so that he should be loved. So that there is no quarrel between brothers and sisters because of women. Then one should be very kind and merciful towards the sister because there is a house of comments, so it is not heard of treating her badly because if the sister cries and leaves the house, then by the mercy of Allah, she leaves the house. So we have to be very sincere towards our sisters, we have to have a lot of love and care, we have to be open and have a lot of heart, we have to be very hopeful, we have to entertain them enough and we have to be aware of what my sister wants.

Then we have to have a lot of respect and love for our aunts. We have to be very careful about their love and care and their rights. If they get any rights, we have to explain them thoroughly. Because Allah Almighty has warned us a lot about rights because if someone is careless about the gaps, then he will have a lot of problems in the hereafter, that is, it will be very difficult to go to heaven. So we have to be very careful and keep a sharp eye on them so that they do not cheat us about their rights. Then we have to be sincere and respectful towards all the relatives who are there. It is not right to throw them out of the house without eating when they come home, because whenever they come, we have to make arrangements so that they cannot leave without eating. But Allah Almighty will be pleased with us and will bless us with mercy. I'm ending this today, may Allah preserve me.