Parenting is one of the most difficult job for we human. We don't take it serious but we need to learn parenting before we get into it. Educated people found concern about parenting because they are concern about their responsibilities to the child or children. We should appreciate this kind of learning. A good mother not only give birth a child but also give birth the nation of a country. No parents wants to give birth a spoiled kid but a kid never born spoiled so directly or indirectly parents are responsible of their children's nature.

When a new baby born he/she can be compared with the clay or soft mud that can get a good shape or character from the parents in future. To get an ideal or good child, it is necessary to be a good parent. Parent's behavior can play a vital role to decide the character kids going to have in the future. So parents should learn parenting but more than that parents should understand the psychology of their children and treat them accordingly.

You should be like, as you want to see your kids in future. Be well behaved as much possible and your kids will learn the same from you. As a human being we know what is good and what is not so hide the bad from your kids and express yourself as the good. Parents should ensure a good environment where there kids can learn good things and they can be the asset for you, your country or nation in future.

Children are not born with good manners, with the time they learn from family and become a real human being. See the first platform of their learning is family so give your kids a good family as parents. Try keep them away from family fighting, misunderstanding and arguments. Kids at their early age shouldn't be involved in such thing as it can affect their physical and mental health. Your smiley face make them smile, when you cry your kids also cry with you so now you can feel the way your behavior as parents how effect on your kid's behavior.

As a parent be strong, stay positive and shows love as much you can, this way your children will learn good things from you. If you want to teach them difference between good and bad at their early age, tell them stories with moralities and this way they can understand that how being good is important to them and how to stay away from the bad. Many parents scold their kids for their mistake and they believe they only can teach kids this way.

Once I stopped a woman when she was scolding her daughter, she act like that she was right and tried to scold me too because I stopped her. What her daughter learn? She learns shouting , misbehavior and how to make oneself arrogant by attitude. Kids are hungry for love, attention and care, if as parents you can afford to give them then you can expect a good child in future. When kids grow up and don't obey parents, as a parent you feel bad but never think the reason behind their rude behavior and mannerless attitude. Only given birth is not enough, ensure a better life and secured future for children is also the responsible of parents. Let your children feel that they are on safe hand and you are the best as parent.

So always remember, our nature will be the reflection of the nature of our kids in the future. The way we treat them when they are young, they will treat us likewise when we will be old. So our behavior to our kids should be always good. If they make mistake, try to correct them with love that they can be a apodizer and never repeat the same mistake. We blame illiterate parents for bad parenting when educated parents also can treat kids with bad manners that never can bring anything good.

What happen when parents treat kids in a negative way or misbehave with them? They learn how to be rude, how to shout on other's mistake, how to treat others with bad manners and some kids become out of control and stubborn. As a parent you may have to consult a psychologist later for this. Some kids lost their mind and can't speak up confidently in public because they were nip in bud. I've seen many kids nip in bud and parents responsible for this. Negative attitude of parents make children timid, weak and diffident. These kids also suffering from several phobias too when grow up.

These are the effects of parents behavior on child's physical and mental health. So if you are already a parent try to understand your children, if not yet parent like me then let's learn parenting from experts. The responsibilities of parents is really very challenging and kids need to have the right lead or direction to choose the right way of life. At the very beginning only parents can help them to choose the right path